hospitality

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I’ve briefly mentioned before about living in a hotel when I was an engineering contractor. Between those stays, which might last up to months, and stays for personal travel, I’ve seen a lot of hotel rooms.

There are lots of nice things about hotels–someone cleans up after you, there’s usually a pool and exercise room, and the “social hour” snacks are alright too. One of the things I liked best, though, was all the little items in your own room that just made it, well, comfortable. When you leave to go home, you’d expect to feel even more comfortable. Home is your own place, after all. But there’s something that never feels quite so open, quite so “getting away” as when you’re in a hotel room. Is there a way you can bring some of that feeling, that hotel living, home? Well, you don’t have to wait–just keep reading to find out how to make the answer yes! 😀

A Focus on Two Rooms

There are two major areas of focus: The bathroom and the bedroom. Why? Those are the two spaces that all hotel rooms are made up of. If you get a nicer hotel room, or a larger one, then sure you’ll have other spaces and items to consider. Let’s keep this simple, though.

You’ll want to focus mostly on the bathroom and bedroom that you use the most in your home. If you’re fortunate enough to have a master bathroom attached to your bedroom, that’s what you’ll want to look at. If there are multiple bathrooms in your home, choose the one that has the best facilities (e.g., a bath instead of a shower, dual sinks, or wherever the kids are least likely to intrude).

Let’s Start with the Bathroom

What do you see when you first walk into the bathroom at a hotel? Apart from the toilet. You see a clean, organized space; the little things on the sink are neatly laid out, the trash can is tucked away, and the towels are all folded up.

Shower time

The shower is likely the epitome of all that cleanliness: There are few things, if any, on the shower’s shelves. If you want to bring hotel living home, start there by getting rid of all the things you don’t need in your shower. Those things that are crucial? Sure, keep them. The bulk size bottle of shampoo and the multiple soap bars? Move the shampoo to a smaller bottle and just have one bar of soap. Give yourself some space to enjoy moving around in the shower!

And, to truly enjoy that space, make sure you invest in a good showerhead. Most hotels have multi-setting showerheads so you can do anything from blast yourself to just have a little mist. You don’t have to spend a lot to get one of these, although you can get some very fancy ones if you truly want to make the investment.

Beyond the shower

To keep the area around the shower clean, get a towel that’s different from all the others to serve as your bath mat. This is one thing that hotels do that has a lot of wisdom: They just use one nice, unique towel for you to step on without slipping. They (and you) could use a fabric bath mat, but those are really difficult to keep clean and a pain to run through the laundry.

Finally, apart from keeping your floors and toilet clean (and your trash from overflowing), the other thing to do is have minimal clutter around your sink. Put all the often-viewed-seldom-used things away, find a drawer for your toothbrush and toothpaste, and minimize the decorations. In alignment with my wife’s post on hospitality, keep an extra basket or stand with some small, extra bottles of shampoo and soap on hand in case you or your guests need them.

That’s it for the bathroom. Streamlined, improved, and ready to move on to the bedroom.

The Bigger Space: The Bedroom

Do you really want to know why it feels so good to walk into a hotel room? Yes, sometimes it’s that you finally completed the end of a long, dreary drive. Yup, you can watch TV channels that you might not get at home. But with both of those, and other reasons, there’s one big point: The bedroom has enough space to drop your things, and is clean so that you can go anywhere and sit anywhere without dealing with “stuff”.

The biggest, best thing you can do for your bedroom, then, is similar to what you did in your bathroom: Remove all the clutter. Dirty laundry: into the clothes basket. Coats: They go in the closet. Kids’ toys: Back to the kids’ rooms. Anything on the dresser: Find a place for it. That feeling of openness, of peace you just got there? Already so worth it. Now for the more fun stuff.

Start with the bed

The big focus point in your bedroom is, of course, the bed. In a hotel, the staff makes the bed up for you. Get off your butt and do it yourself every morning to have that experience. Again, it keeps things looking clean and brings hotel living home. While you’re dealing with the bed, get a set of nice sheets and a decent comforter to put on there. Hotels are good at putting nice bedding (though not expensive) on. They’ve also become very good at providing pillows of different firmness and size to help everyone sleep better. If you have a hard time sleeping (like I do), indulge here so that you can find the option that fits you best every night.

Finish with the nightstand

In both the hotel and in most peoples’ homes, there’s a nightstand. Keep it simple: Limit what’s on there to a light, a book, and an alarm clock, just like a hotel room. And turn your darned phone off or to Do Not Disturb, because there’s very little you’re going to be needed for or can solve overnight anyways.

Hopefully, with this, you’ve got a bedroom with very little clutter and a very big sense of space. Since it’s the current fad, you can call this following Marie Kondo’s methods. If you’re like me, you call it minimalism (which came way before Ms. Kondo, by the way). Either way, it’s a step towards having the hotel experience in your own bedroom.

You Can Do This, and More

There you have it: If you want to bring hotel living home to your bathroom and bedroom spaces, it’s primarily about minimizing what’s out on the multitude of surfaces, and keeping organized those few items that are out. With that, and a very few purchases, you can experience hotel comfort in your personal spaces.

There are many other things you can do to try and achieve the hotel living experience. You can prepare snacks for you and your family for your own “social hour” in the afternoon. Putting away the rest of the clutter in your house is great, too (and helps prevent bare feet from meeting hard LEGOs). Even some small purchase like a new entry mat for your front door can be a step in the right direction.

We can’t duplicate the entirety of the hotel experience in our homes. I hope that this post has given you some insight into what you can do, though, to make your bathroom, bedroom, and the rest of your home feel like a great place to be.

Have a great week!

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Hospitality, something I strive to be better at.

My life is truly blessed with incredible woman who have modeled hospitality to me (both my grandmothers and my mom). While their homes might not have been updated with the most modern decor, their homes were a place of welcome, a place of peace and love. As I reflect on their homes, they were welcoming places because of three main areas. First, when people came to visit, their homes were clean. Secondly, when people came to visit, their homes had all the creature comforts needed to make your stay restful. Lastly, when people came to stay, they never left hungry. There was always incredible food to eat.

Recently, we had the opportunity to open our home to my sister and her coworker/friend. Even though my sister has stayed with us before, it had been a while and she was flying in from another state. Her friend coming with her was someone I had never met.  I wanted their stay to be wonderful!

As I began to prepare for our guests, I wanted to put the three parts of hospitality into practice: cleanliness, comfort, and delicious food. To help prepare a little more, I wanted to get to know our guests a little better. Hence, a Hospitality Questionnaire was born:

Hospitality Questionnaire

We are so excited you are coming to stay with us.  We have just a few questions so we can get to know you more and make your stay with us as comfortable as possible.

  1. What are your favorite types of food or snacks to eat?
  2. Do you have a favorite salad dressing?
  3. Do you have any food allergies or any foods you are trying to avoid?
  4. Do you have anything you like to drink?
  5. Do you have any scents you enjoy, or are there any scents you avoid?
  6. Do you have a pet allergy?
  7. Do you have anything medical you would like to share so we can be prepared?  For example, my sister is diabetic, so as a result I always have juice available if her blood sugar crashes.  Another example, my son has sensitive skin and we have to be careful of what laundry detergent we use so he doesn’t get hives.
  8. Is there anything you are looking forward to seeing while you are here?
  9. For fun: What is your favorite color?  What is your favorite flower?
  10. Is there anything else we can do for you while you are here?

The questionnaire was a big success with our guests.  They enjoyed filling it out and knowing we were taking a little extra time to make sure their stay was as comfortable as possible.

Now armed with this information, we were able to prepare a little more for our guests!

To begin, I reflected back on the three parts of hospitality.  The first one was cleanliness.  Now once upon a time, when I was not a mom, this was not too hard of a task to accomplish.  I would set aside some time before guests arrive and put in a little effort, and voila, a clean house.  Now fast forward to today, mom of two wonderful little boys age 1 and 4.  Let’s just say it takes a lot of extra work, and humor to clean up after the little humans.  Ten minutes later it might be just as messy as when you started.  I believe my guests understood this, and I did put in a good effort, but let’s just say it was far from perfect.

Next, onto making our guests comfortable.  I began by making sure they had a comfortable place to sleep.  I made sure our guests had comfortable bedding, and they each had their own space to be able to relax.  I also made sure they each had a nice towel and washcloth.  Additionally, we went above and beyond to add some comfort to our home for our guests.  One of the things we do is to have a basket in our guest bathroom we stock with toiletry items. We make sure our guests know the basket is just for them. Another thing we like to do for our guests is leave a little gift for them when they arrive.  Waiting on their pillow when they arrive, we either leave a little chocolate or coffee sample from a local place.  This time we also left some flowers by their bedsides.

guest room with flowers

Another way we made sure our guests were comfortable was showing them around. Our guests arrived late at night, but I still was able to give them a quick walk through the house.  I was able to show them where things were like lights and how to open child safety gates.  I also was able to show them around the kitchen. I had water bottles for them in the fridge and a cabinet stocked with snacks.

This brings me to my last unit of hospitality, food. Before our guests arrived I was able to make a menu based on foods we enjoy as a family, and foods they might enjoy from the Hospitality Questionnaire. I was also able to have any snacks or drinks they might want or need.  We even planned a couple of meals out, so they could experience our favorite local restaurants. No one left hungry!

My sister and her friend had a great stay! We were able to offer a great place for them to stay which was clean, comfortable, and full of delicious food. This whole process of reflection and communicating with our guests using the Hospitality Questionnaire was very helpful.  Please feel free to use this Hospitality Questionnaire.  I hope that it comes in handy for you as well!

Do you have any special tips or tricks you do for your guests? I would love to hear!

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